The weekend is already here and some of you are planning where the hangout spot is.
In these hangout spots, there is one specific thing that never misses out: the one nightstand. This is a random night hook up with a stranger you met in the club.
Chances are high that after the night, you may not communicate or see each other again. When it comes to a one-night stand, there are specific don’ts you need to be aware of.
Do not have unprotected sex
To avoid getting infected with sexually infected diseases like gonorrhoea, syphilis, chlamydia, herpes, scabies and the likes, use protection. This is because you do not know who this person well.
Do not expect something more after
One night stands never last for long. Do not expect a relationship or hope to fall in love with him/her because it will not head anywhere. It will be a disaster. This is because you did not know each other well and there are judgments and perceptions made.
Do not sneak out immediately
Once you have sobered up, there is a tendency of leaving immediately. This happens because you do not want to be embarrassed and the laughing stock among your friends or colleagues. According to Your Tango, it is said that leaving immediately is rude and disrespectful.
Do not have a one night stand with a friend
This is one of the worst decisions you would make, having a one night stand with a friend/someone you know. This is because it will ruin the friendship and create awkwardness, especially if there were no romantic feelings involved.
If there were feelings involved it may be different.